By Sister Kristine Violango, RSM
It has been 31years since the Philippines held its first Pride Parade, an event that significantly raised awareness about the LGBTQ+ community. What began with a small group of participants has since blossomed, with celebrations now extending to many parts of the archipelago.
The Philippines, a country rich in diverse languages and cultures, famed for its hospitality, which often presents an image of tolerance. However, this outward acceptance masks a deeper current of injustice against our LGBTQ+ population. Members of the community are frequently mocked and subjected to ridicule. In our Mercy schools, we make sure our staff and workers who belong to LGBTQ+ community will feel safe and accepted. We want them to feel at home and free to express themselves without fear or anxiety.
Despite the ongoing challenges, the resilience of gay Filipinos shines through, especially during Pride. They have flourished in various fields, becoming managers, business owners and even CEOs, and dominating sectors like beauty and entertainment. A growing number are making their mark in politics and government as well.
This success is a testament to the courage and strength of LGBTQ+ individuals who strive not just for their cause, but for their loved ones and families as well. This dedication to family is an important aspect of the Filipino LGBTQ+ experience. Many achieve success driven by a deep commitment to their families. As a developing nation, helping one’s family is a priority in our country. And this inherent commitment to supporting family members also has fostered greater acceptance for gay individuals within many households.
Despite these strides and the prevailing tolerance, we cannot become complacent. Some still face negative reactions in their families when they come out, and resistance persists in the country, primarily from conservative and religious groups who view the community as contradicting traditional values and culture. The ingrained Filipino belief that marriage is only between man and woman is a significant factor. Currently, the Senate is debating a controversial Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity Expression Equality Bill (SOGIE), advocating for gay rights. Interestingly, resistance to this bill comes not only from mainstream society but also from some within the gay community who fear it may alter Filipino values. They argue the bill is redundant and perceive it as granting additional privileges to LGBTQ+ individuals.
Still, the Philippines observes Pride Month with a spirit of tolerance and acceptance, amid widespread efforts to promote awareness of discrimination, in which the mainstream media plays a vital role. Rallies are held nationwide, showcasing the beauty of a country where acceptance of the LGBTQ+ presence is steadily growing.